DIANA Hi Zak, thank you, I attended the prior master class and found it so impactful, especially the role plays, wow, light bulb moments for me seeing the “shifts”.I’ve also especially valued your shares around feminine communication impacting sons. My sons are 18 and 13 and felt ideal timing to hear!In light of recent TX shooting, a friend posted this (below). It reminded me, children are the future. I’ve come to see your teachings are so valuable. ADULTS have influence now to get educated and impact all their relationships especially starting in each home.I’m reminded of alchemy “We can’t change anyone else, we can only change ourselves, others change in reaction to you” (energetically, communication, boundaries - floating away).The master class has also helped me experience “new light” and understanding in my marriage. Thank you.Re-posting from my friend ...“As we sat last night watching these kiddos enjoy one of their final end of the school year rituals, it was not lost on me the heartache of so many parents whose lives forever changed yesterday.It is difficult to put into words the flood of emotions which includes guilt for having what others never will.As we all know, life is precious so celebrate all the things and don’t sweat the small stuff.Children of all ages are the future of our world. Love them well, teach them well and above all else show them and teach them to BE KINDPerhaps today you can be a bright light for someone else, because if we want to change things it starts with us.

SKY - I attended the masterclass with my ex (he bought it, but we attended together. I bought a ticket for my sister, intending to watch with her and my mother, but that plan fell through last minute... so I joined with my ex instead ).Since joining the masterclass, I have a much greater understanding of what feminine and masculine communication ACTUALLY LOOKS LIKE. This was something I've really struggled to imagine despite having read so much on the subject and having a fairly decent theoretical understanding. Since the masterclass, my ex and I started to really practise polarised communication. He would ask me leading questions about how I'm feeling and where, and I would relax into my body to express the answer. The results were surprising and felt so powerful and liberating!! The shifts I've been experiencing is that not only do I wait for a man to lead me through this (though when one is capable and willing I just melt with delight!) but I also make time and prioritise acknowledging my feelings as they arise. Slowing down has been a big theme for me lately to allow me to process and flow through these emotions (something that I've put off for most of my life). The masterclass has also made me extra determined to stay committed to my goal of getting into the academy to truly embody my radiance, as the little tastes I have had so far are just too exciting to not pursue further! I was already pretty obsessed with polarity prior to the masterclass, but since I find I just can't stop talking about it and relating it to basically everything and everyone around me! It just made something click, seeing the theory be put into real life practice!
Thank you so much for providing such an affordable glimpse into the practical application of your teachings... it was definitely a real eye- opener and game- changer for me. 

CHRISTINA - I loved getting to see the role-plays in the masterclass! It helped me to truly understand what a polarized dynamic would look and feel like. I was able to visualize myself in similar situations and step into how it would feel for me to communicate in a truly feminine way with a man guiding me deeper into expressing my feelings. Honestly, it was exciting to see this dynamic in action and brought me hope that I could some day have a polarized relationship where my feelings would be heard and acknowledged. I was really grateful to Zak and Mark for such an educational and inspiring class!

They say 'the more you tell, the more you sell' which is true... but only if people actually read what you write. People read text that's punchy, interesting and helps them make a good buying decision.

CHEVONNE - I attended the Masterclass on Saturday, feeling a bit anxious but very excited to join the group. I was one of two black women on the call, and I feel this is so important for all women, but as a black woman I've been brought up as a masculine, strong woman, devoid of all femininity. I didnt know my feelings mattered until working with a coach. Through working with her, I was lead to Zak. The Masterclass blew me away, especially the role plays with Mark Binet. I felt this strong feeling in my chest and my heart open, as we were shown how to polarise using feminine and masculine communication. I saw what vulnerability and devotion looks like; I now feel that my feminine energy and vulnerability is of value, is important.
In a day to day level, when in my feminine energy, I write songs and compose only guitar. Communication at work is still challenging, trying to communicate from my femininity is frightening, but I know how to feel my feelings fully and not run away from myself. Zak and Mark show such love, compassion and gentle but firm leadership, that I believe I deserve and I want a partner who is the same.

RICHARD - I've been in the social media wings of Zak Roedde's and Mark Binet's group for a while, commenting and contributing when I felt inspired and where I could add value. The subject of relationship and dating polarity is huge and while simple in its sentiment it is challenging to apply 'in' the moment, on the fly, especially when triggered. The Masterclass did a wonderful job of narrowing down the vast array of obvious and not so obvious nuances of masculine and feminine communication so that the knowledge and insights became manageable and applicable. The role-play examples while fun and purposefully theatrical hit home and gave a snapshot into relational dynamics that have so far, beyond the honeymoon period, on the whole, alluded me. Confusion between headier approaches vs instinctive impulses can easily keep you in the swamp of not knowing and emasculation. While I consider myself masculine (business owner-manager, mostly on purpose, and on a mission) attraction in my relationships would tend to fizzle out or erupt into a train wreck ending. I'm currently single, approaching fifty years of age, only just on the other side of a mid-life transition, and have been single for nearly 3 years. While I won't be jumping into the academy just yet this masterclass comprehensive overview opened my eyes and mind with some simple instructions and examples that convinced me Zak and Mark et al are the right real-world experts to go to and learn from when the time comes for me to start dating and relating in earnest once again. If not before. After all, failing to prepare is planning to fail.

INNA - I did the very 1st Masterclass, which was approximately two hour class, that was offered! I felt excited to see it for myself, jumped on it excitedly.
It was very informative, spontaneously entertaining, and extremely real life!
Moving forward, I really try to better and improve. Because; I noticed triggers during some parts of the two hour Masterclass!

ISHITA - I attended a masterclass on April 21 and I really felt that communication between a man and women can be so simple and shift things faster in the direction wanted through polarity. The role play demonstration in the masterclass was an eye opener to me! There has been times where I felt stuck as a woman and younger girl to find ways to express what I need from a man in a relationship dynamic in fear of coming off too masculine. Here I learnt that expressions can be made in a feminine effective way and in the one month following the workshop I have been able to express myself more naturally,but still I feel it's a learning curve.

BONNIE - I was on the first masterclass. I was in awe at how true polarized communication looks and feels. It was like a call of home. I've said this before to a few that I felt sad after the masterclass because I realized I missed home and didn't even know I missed home. I didn't know what home was but when I saw it, I missed it immensely. For me, true masculine communication was home. One of the most eye opening parts for me was the discussion around needs. Since reading the books I had started saying my feelings but I had not allowed myself to recognize that I have needs and that it is okay to have those needs. It took looking within myself and knowing myself to a whole new level. My feelings arise because I have needs that I feel aren't met. Those needs must be expressed. They don't go away if you ignore them and therefore all the feelings surfacing keep surfacing. The masterclass taught me that it is natural to have the needs that I have; that I'm not needy or flawed because I have needs. The needs I have are natural and when expressed correctly can be met and healed. I do not know how to be true feminine but when I practice it, I feel free. Seeing that it is possible for men and women to be polarized, and fully themselves, gives me great hope and yearning. It is where I want to be. People don't have to live the way they have been living. They can thrive and be who they truly are and Zak's books, along with witnessing communication in the masterclass showed me how it is possible. I have not transformed my life since the masterclass, but I have allowed myself to be where I am so that I can move forward.

MINA - I want to thank Zak and Mark for the teachings they shared with us in the polarity communication masterclass. I liked their style of teaching it was two hours full of value, the information was to the point, detailed and practical. They say a picture is worth a thousand words, imagine a video. I found the idea of having a workshop to actually work on the concepts brilliant, it was experiential learning at its finest, observation and replication with real time feedback. I've also took other courses on relationship dynamics and this is the first time that I see results so fast, and when I say fast I literally mean within a day. The advice improved the relationship I have with my father tremendously and helped me realise so many things about how he views the world. We always hear about femininity as a concept but few coaches actually give practical examples of how to apply the advice. My father is the kindest man I've ever met, and the best father I could hope for, yet he always tried to control things around and at times being loud. Now I realize that he was just trying to be heard, and get rid of the uncertainty of things not working the right way because of our differing opinions. A few days before the course I had told him " if you always try to control everything,you ll always be anxious about everything, sometimes you just have to let it be."I grew up with a strong and independent mother. Her motto is "time is the most important thing, tell people exactly what you want them to do, and how you want them to do it. This is the most effective way to have your needs met" after I listened to the course I figured there is an art to communicating your needs and being understood. And the first thing is not having people bring up their defences while feeling disrespected, so they can listen to you clearly. I've heard this question in the past. "If you can tell a man what to do. Is he really a man? " well he is. But said man might not feel like it. So I slowly practised stating my needs without telling my father what to do. Instead of telling my father "you should buy rice because we re running out of it" I told him "do you think this rice will be enough for that type of food I want to make,what do you think?".Instead of asking him to bring down the heavy objects. I just stated "I need this and that" and he just knew what to do and he did it with a smile on his face feeling like he had accomplished a purpose.I also started following his advice and his lead, it was difficult at first , but I decided to give it a try, well he s been around a few more years than me, he has more experience. It wouldnt hurt to air dry the laundry his way. Well it worked and it turns out it was a lot less work for me. I also figured he doesnt like it when I make judgments about others, or when I'm being negative. These all seem like small things, but small things matter.It has been a while and I find that a lot of my needs get covered even the ones I didnt know I have. The other day I came home to find a new bus card for the next month, something I had completely forgotten to buy. Maybe my father was also thinking about taking these small provisions in the past but he was hesitant to act without asking me first.
Now my father feels closer to me and grants me a new level of respect the same he feels I give to him. He is more willing to listen to my point of view even if he doesnt always agree. And he is a lot more patient and calm. He opens up to me like he would an old friend because he thinks I understand him. Even though he is one of the most beloved people in my life, I always felt like we didnt have compatible views on things and I just have to live with this, it's funny but we have not argued in a while. Even if some type of friction happens he doesnt go into attack mode but we just work it out like no big deal. In the past I felt like he doesnt give me the same type of respect he gives my brother just because I am a woman. Turns out they just see the world the same way, interpret things the same way and consider the same type of behaviour acceptable. They see respect differently than what I do and my brother was able to give my father respect in a way I wasn't, so he got the same type of respect back during communication. And the most important thing
it seems my father has regained his health. He is more active, happy and strong. He used to always complain about his health and he stayed indoors,not sure if that was his attempt to gain more attention or just a result of bad mood. Now he has a lot more energy and confidence, he loves to go outside and he buys food and necessities for the household. Like he has a new purpose, like he is finally recognized for his efforts. He seems at least 20 years younger.So, thank you

HASTI - My husband and I attended the first MasterClass after reading Irresistibly Feminine. It was very eye opening to see the effects of masculine communication on the feminine. Masculine communication wasn’t at all what I was expecting it to be. It was calm, grounded, strong and safe. The part where I saw the women connect to their feelings with the masculine counter left me wanting that for myself. I can absolutely see it as a new level of intimacy and connection. Reading doesn’t always translate tone and energy and this was a great way to get a full experience of what the communication styles can look like.

ELLEN - My husband and I attended the masterclass with Zak Roedde and Mark Binet approx 2 weeks ago now, and truly, the results have been SIGNIFICANT. I am a relationship coach myself and have been on the polarity path for several years now to the point where I confidently teach it. AND with vulnerability and authenticity I admit, my own marriage is not perfectly polarised. This has been a long and rocky road for me in my marriage. I have felt shame. I have read Irresistibly Feminine and Don’t Let Her Lead, and my husband has also read Don’t Let Her Lead. Despite this, and my banging on about polarity and masculine and feminine energy and expressions for YEARS now, it was only after the masterclass that something GENUINELY seemed to CLICK and lock in place for my husband. Watching it together was a really bonding experience. And subsequently we now have a new shared language when it comes to our communication. FOR THE FIRST TIME my husband has started to correct me (kindly) by saying, hey ellen I think you were in your masculine there and it was disrespectful- or words to that effect- which I naturally respond to SO BEAUTIFULLY, it takes me out of my masculine straight away…and I have started saying things like, I was in my masculine just then, I’m sorry. And more communication is flowing magically like this for us..like, asking permission, and he is honestly leading more than EVER… To have a shared understanding and language is just a complete gamechanger and as I said, despite books and many conversations about this - it took him being in the masterclass to actually get properly on board. Maybe even to finally *get it* I have tried to lead him and coach him on it (in my masculine of course, paradox or what… ) over the years… but the more I have been able to embody my feminine, (of course), the more he has been open to trying this and the possibility that it might really work and now since the masterclass (which I simply expressed about to him in my feminine, expressed it as a desire that he attend with me, which he then wanted to fulfill)...it’s simply a new level of consciousness for us in our marriage. It is beyond beautiful. For my part, as I have said, I have been working on this and training and *trying* and succeeding and failing for years in this journey of feminine embodiment, expression, healing and communication and omg the whole fricking thing…but since I discovered the guys here…I have been completely turned on by their teaching… I have been in this conversation and been coached before on this topic only by women- which has been completely DIVINE- (well apart from being very burned once or twice)…but my mentors and coaches have all been women… What I find with Zak and Mark is that, as a recovering masculine woman, being LED to my feminine by dominant male coaches is WOW, I truly want to SUBMIT AND SURRENDER AND ALLOW their guidance, I TRUST it and I DESIRE it. Which makes total sense! No one else is teaching polarity like this- it’s so clear, so unambiguous, so accessible! The role plays are GOLD. To just observe and watch is gold, so I can only imagine how transforming actually taking part would be. And the guys are FUN too, my husband and I laughed loads during the class, and we were also inspired to be so loving and physical and affectionate during and after it, the energy of polarity is somehow transmitted out by the guys! Thank you so much, I feel so excited and grateful for what has been awakened and lit up for my husband and in our marriage since the masterclass and I can’t wait to dive deeper with you and learn and embody and practice more of this deliciousness as soon as I possibly can.

ALEXIS - I’ve been following Mark since last fall and, to be honest, reading his posts prior to January of this year I felt a lot of truth and resonance but at the same time would get rubbed the VERY wrong way by at least one sentence per post and was constantly on the edge of whether to unfriend or not…whether I thought this was the best and most refreshing and true thing ever or whether this was misogyny and ego, etc., etc. Then, in January, I started relating (by chance) with a man enrolled in The Academy. I began having personal experiences of polarity that rocked my world and blew my mind and heart open. Now when I read Mark’s posts I can feel the love in them all the way through since I had my own personal experience of the potency of polarity. A recognition of the desire to respect men, surrender, and even SUBMIT to a man’s leadership started waking up and then coming fully online in me in a way I could not deny. It was beautiful. Yet, the entire 3 months this man and I related, I struggled with the question, “Is this particular man’s leadership in my highest and best to submit and surrender to?” Especially after he introduced me to the concept of “flowing away,” I was continually questioning should I flow away or stay and keep facing what was coming up in me and for me with my tendencies to judge, blame, lead, etc. In the Masterclass, in just a 3-minute role play with two Academy graduates, I got to see and, most importantly, FEEL what was missing in that dynamic that had me uncertain about surrender…it was VISION for the relationship. The male academy graduate modeled, for just one moment, what clarity of vision for the relationship looks and feels like and in that one moment I got why my system had been constantly on edge and having such a hard time (beyond my own trust issues which I’m fully aware that I have) relaxing into surrender. In that moment, I knew I have to focus on my self-worth…my worthiness to relate with a man who has a clear vision for his life and for our relationship…and that was priceless. Thank you.

TAMMRA - I really enjoyed and appreciate the Masterclass. It gave the information I have read in the Facebook group and the books life. The perspective and examples were immensely helpful. I felt a bit anxious in a few of the Masterclass role plays however by the end of each example I felt calmer.
I was quarantined for quite a while and then went on a trip to see family for a Celebration of Life this past week and I was able to apply some of what I learned in the Masterclass. Well, when I remembered I applied it. It’s going to take some practice. When I travel, I am used to being the one who plans the trip and takes care of everything… my carry on, shuttles, getting around, care rental, directions, etc. even when in a relationship. I am single now and traveled with my sister and her husband this past week. I caught myself being in my masculine and then would step back and allow my brother-in-law to direct and be led by him. It was a completely different experience. I kept having to catch myself and failed a few times, but it felt good when I was in my feminine. It was interesting watching my sister. I hadn’t observed their relationship with this lens before. She is in her feminine a lot more than I thought she would be. I observed the relationships of many of my relatives, that I only see every so many years, with the new perspective and knowledge gained from the Masterclass. I learned a lot from observation alone by seeing how each couple spoke and responded. I cringed at times about what I was observing and tried to be an example, and one family member wondered why another did something for me and not them. I asked if they would like some information I had recently learned about but they didn’t seem too receptive at that time. It was an interesting trip, and I am grateful for all the different relationships I was able to observe, and I look forward to learning to stay in my feminine more and more.

CRYSTAL - I attended the masters class. Where do I begin!!! I was triggered. I shared. I've been feeling my feelings and I have a lot to consider Zac was incredibly supportive and made me feel safe. Mark made me laugh at one stage simply because of the honesty within the role plays and how he gets into character.
This really gave me an idea of what a healthy relationship looks like. For the first time, I felt that my feelings mattered. That was probably the most important take home there was.

SCOTT - I thought the class was great. Roles plays informative. Especially appreciated Zak outlining the basic ways of communication for M and F.