ELLEN - My husband and I attended the masterclass with Zak Roedde
and Mark Binet
approx 2 weeks ago now, and truly, the results have been SIGNIFICANT. I am a relationship coach myself and have been on the polarity path for several years now to the point where I confidently teach it. AND with vulnerability and authenticity I admit, my own marriage is not perfectly polarised. This has been a long and rocky road for me in my marriage. I have felt shame. I have read Irresistibly Feminine and Don’t Let Her Lead, and my husband has also read Don’t Let Her Lead. Despite this, and my banging on about polarity and masculine and feminine energy and expressions for YEARS now, it was only after the masterclass that something GENUINELY seemed to CLICK and lock in place for my husband. Watching it together was a really bonding experience. And subsequently we now have a new shared language when it comes to our communication. FOR THE FIRST TIME my husband has started to correct me (kindly) by saying, hey ellen I think you were in your masculine there and it was disrespectful- or words to that effect- which I naturally respond to SO BEAUTIFULLY, it takes me out of my masculine straight away…and I have started saying things like, I was in my masculine just then, I’m sorry. And more communication is flowing magically like this for us..like, asking permission, and he is honestly leading more than EVER… To have a shared understanding and language is just a complete gamechanger and as I said, despite books and many conversations about this - it took him being in the masterclass to actually get properly on board. Maybe even to finally *get it* I have tried to lead him and coach him on it (in my masculine of course, paradox or what… ) over the years… but the more I have been able to embody my feminine, (of course), the more he has been open to trying this and the possibility that it might really work and now since the masterclass (which I simply expressed about to him in my feminine, expressed it as a desire that he attend with me, which he then wanted to fulfill)...it’s simply a new level of consciousness for us in our marriage. It is beyond beautiful. For my part, as I have said, I have been working on this and training and *trying* and succeeding and failing for years in this journey of feminine embodiment, expression, healing and communication and omg the whole fricking thing…but since I discovered the guys here…I have been completely turned on by their teaching… I have been in this conversation and been coached before on this topic only by women- which has been completely DIVINE- (well apart from being very burned once or twice)…but my mentors and coaches have all been women… What I find with Zak and Mark is that, as a recovering masculine woman, being LED to my feminine by dominant male coaches is WOW, I truly want to SUBMIT AND SURRENDER AND ALLOW their guidance, I TRUST it and I DESIRE it. Which makes total sense! No one else is teaching polarity like this- it’s so clear, so unambiguous, so accessible! The role plays are GOLD. To just observe and watch is gold, so I can only imagine how transforming actually taking part would be. And the guys are FUN too, my husband and I laughed loads during the class, and we were also inspired to be so loving and physical and affectionate during and after it, the energy of polarity is somehow transmitted out by the guys! Thank you so much, I feel so excited and grateful for what has been awakened and lit up for my husband and in our marriage since the masterclass and I can’t wait to dive deeper with you and learn and embody and practice more of this deliciousness as soon as I possibly can.